And Abu ‘Amr al-Shaybani—his name is Sa‘d ibn Iyas.

3. Chapter: The Virtue of the Parents’ Pleasure

2008 – Ibn Abi ‘Umar narrated to us, saying: Sufyan narrated to us, from ‘Ata’ ibn al-Sa’ib, from Abu ‘Abd al-Rahman al-Sulami, from Abu al-Darda’, who said: A man came to him and said: “I have a wife, and my mother commands me to divorce her.” Abu al-Darda’ said: I heard the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, say: “The parent is the middle gate of Paradise. So if you wish, lose that gate, or preserve it.” He said: And sometimes Sufyan would say: “My mother,” and sometimes he would say: “My father.”

This hadith is authentic.

And Abu ‘Abd al-Rahman al-Sulami—his name is ‘Abdullah ibn Habib.

2009 – Abu Hafs ‘Amr ibn ‘Ali narrated to us, saying: Khalid ibn al-Harith narrated to us, from Shu‘bah, from Ya‘la ibn ‘Ata’, from his father, from ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Amr, from the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, who said: “The Lord’s pleasure is in the parent’s pleasure, and the Lord’s displeasure is in the parent’s displeasure.”

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(1) The phrase “so if you wish” appears only in a marginal copy of (B).
(2) An authentic hadith; also recorded by Ibn Majah (2089), and it is in al-Musnad (21717), and Sahih Ibn Hibban (425).
(3) A good hadith; also recorded by Ibn ‘Asakir 4/76/1, al-Hakim 4/151 and 152, and al-Baghawi (3423) and (3424), and it is in Sahih Ibn Hibban (429).
On this topic, from Ibn ‘Umar, recorded by al-Bazzar (1865); al-Haythami said in 8/136: In it is ‘Ismah =